"The only evidence that they had that the other person existed before their marriage night was simply a small black-and-white picture and the good wishes of a couple of relatives," he says.
(The one with many lovers or the one with just one lover) are both the same.
For this reason Imaam Ahmad ibn Hanbal (may Allaah have mercy on him) said that it is not right to marry a promiscuous woman unless she has repented, or to arrange a marriage of such a woman to a chaste man, so long as she is still conducting herself in this manner.
Although Irshad's family isn't aganist her dating, they have taken things into their own hands.
"My parents and my grandparents are constantly asking other people, anyone they meet 'do you know anyone good for my daughter? Irshad says her parents aren’t pushing her into a marriage, rather "helping" in the process.
This was not there in North America before the Second World War.
The women used to wear long chaste dresses and their dating did not involve the close intimacy that we see today.
The choice of a marriage partner is one of the most important decisions a person will make in his or her lifetime.
It should be taken as seriously as any other major decision in life - with prayer, careful investigation, and family involvement.
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